Let go

two simple workds, but how many people can really let go?

can someone really let go of the past, of the hurt? from young, we have to learn, i was just scolding mabel, she did a mother's day card, but i think sopia accidentally spoilt it and she threw it away. Both hers and marcus' card. Marcus is very cool about it but Mabel is very upset and angry.

I just had a good talk with Mabel, she feels that her efforts had been wasted and she is upset and angry about it. I told her, many times in life, we will have this feeling, feel that our efforts are not appreciated and wasted. I told her that she has to first let go of this feeling, this hurt, this upset, then she would be happy.

as i talked to her, i can't help but reflect on myself too. how many times, we feel hurt, we feel upset, but how many of us can really let go of that feeling? if we dun let go of the feeling, it is going to 'eat up' your heart and your emotions and because you are not happy, it leads to more conflicts, more arguments.

on bigger issues, how many of us can learn to let go of the past, of the hurt? it may seem difficult to let go at that point of time, but i know, with time, it will erase everything, memories, hurt, then it's easier to let go. the process is painful, but it will be beneficial. yes, at times, memories creep in, heart feels pain, but the pain will go away soon.

We are human, it's human to feel emotions, feel emotional. but i guess we have to learn to let go of some of the feelings, then u can feel the peace within.

also, how many people can really let go of a failed relationship? can we really be cool about it and let the person has his/her freedom?

i'm still learning to let go of feelings, of hurt, of pain.