Tuesday, April 03, 2012

random thoughts

This is from stomp again:-

OK for teacher to go clubbing but why post pics of women hugging him?
Concerned parent STOMPer Anon says that while she understands teachers need to have a life outside of work, it is not right that this PE teacher has posted pictures of himself with a score of different women for his students to see.

Anon wrote:

"I happened to take a look at my daughter's facebook as she did not log out after using it.

"I was appalled when I chanced upon the facebook profile of her PE teacher-- a tanned young man.

"He had many photographs taken when clubbing and with different girls (seemingly of different nationalities) on different days in his profile pictures and mobile uploads which have attracted likes and comments from students.
"Teaching is indeed a stressful job and teachers do need to have lives outside work, but those photos should not be posted publicly for students or parents like me to view.

"Exactly what message is he trying to send across with those photos on his profile?

"Or is it because the teacher is trying to portray a young image to gain popularity among his students?"

One of the comments:-
I'm pretty sure who ever posted -ve comments, majority are not parents in the first place. Pls see it from the mom's pt of view. She's concern that the teacher is not showing good example to his students. Apart from intruding into her daughter's FB, the mom did bring up a point. DO YOU WANT OUR FUTURE GENERATION TO BE EXPOSE TO THIS LIFESTYLE?
To concern Mommy,
STOMP is definitely not the platform for you to complaint esp when the main audience here are of the younger age group i supposed. You might want to bring this concern up personally to the teacher. Esp if he is a PE teacher, he ought to promote healthy living to his student. Another thing, do educate your daughter on whats right and what wrong.

My views? well, i got to be politically correct here.
1) As the person who commented as said, the teacher is not showing good example to his students. Well, the commenter is actually quite objective in his point of view. Yes, i can understand the mum's intention, but why is it that only teachers have to set good example? What about parents? Don't parents also have to set good example? The mum has seriously violated her daughter's privacy by looking into her FB account and worse still, put it up on stomp. How would your the daughter feel if she were to know? Enraged and then you will lose the trust of your daughter totally.

Instead of worrying that her teachers is not setting a good example, i think you should start worrying about repairing your relationship with your daughter.

2) Next, the comment in caps, do you want our future generation to be expose to this lifestyle? Well, I'm in for exposing our generation to some things, vice etc. This kind of exposure is better than refraining them to see such things, then ultimately, when they reach the legal age, they may go clubbing, and then they are indeed expose to it and they may like it so much because pictures of such things had been hidden from them when they were young.

Ok, I think i didn't get my point across clearly in the above paragraph. Anyway, how many things can you hide from youngsters? You think they stupid is it? you think the internet don't have such things, is it? Oh please, if you really think of not exposing them to such lifestyle then censor internet, censor hollywood films, censor Hollywood MTV and songs. AHHHHHH, i make more sense in this paragraph.

Jia lat, i really cannot express myself in proper English.... only when in Singlish, then jitao can understand what i'm trying to say. Shit, am I going to be stomped for making this comment?

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