ok, i admit, i'm extremely tempremental and emotional today. one of those days when i keep thinking and reflectiong about life. this is one of the point in life where i get a little depressed, wondering about life, questioning about life but doing nothing to improve life. i should have taken psychology or philosophy in Uni.
i was thinking,
1) dating. during dating, couples will naturally hold hands, after marriage, they hold their children's hands, they have to make a conscious effort to remember to hold each other's hands.
2) dating, they tried to book into budget hotel to sleep close to one another, or if they do sleepover at each other's house, they dun mind squeezing in a single bed and they can literally sleep on top of each other to save space. marriage, they sleep apart, not facing each other, wanting a private space. they wish they have a bigger bed, so that they have more space to themselves.
3) dating, they kissed naturally, in the lift, on the bus, in public places. marriage, we wondered when is the last time we kissed each other? last week? last month?
this is life, natural process. that's why maybe married couples should take time to remind each other about their love, spending some time together. so guys out there, go and tell your wife that u love her today. she needs it. (even if you don't mean it) haha, irony.
so all the ladies out there, it's not just the guys' job. u too can tell them u love them, and i know we ladies really mean it. but ladies, maintain your health, beauty and body even as we age, cos we want our guys to mean what they say when they say they luv us.
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