half year review

at work, we do half year review. but for our own personality and character, do we do review?

from young, i've heard of the chinese phrase, 'if a man does not do things for his own, ...' dunno how to do the direct translation. but in short, be selfish and do things for yourself. when i was young, i wondered, how can that be? how can being generous and kind to others be hurtful to yourself?

slowly, as we slog our lives away in this society, i really cannot help thinking of this phrase. in business, at work, who is not for yourself? be kind to others, and others will bully you.

so i've learnt, learn to harden my heart. but along the way, i know i've hurt people. people may say that i'm heartless, sly, cunning, selfish. all these, i will ignore.

fish, i dun have the mood to think further.