happyness

Purposely spelt it with a 'y' instead of 'i'. I remembered Will Smith acted in a show which spelled happiness the same way. Y? i could not remember the reason.

recently i read an article on happiness. but i can't find it now. It's about why do people choose to be unhappy. It's because when we are unhappy, people wil take notice of us. If we choose to be happy, people will not take notice of us. it is because the society has made it this way, so when a child cries or unhappy, adults give it attention. so the child learns, unhappy, got attention, so they grow up having this mentality.

happy, also have to live one day, not happy also have to live one day. so might as well choose to be happy.

I'm not saying that we act to be happy, no, it's just that we are bound to face unhappiness, it's how you choose to handle the unhappiness. I find that not easy. the feeling is no good. It's like i'm unhappy, nobody knows, so you try all means and ways to let the other party know that you are unhappy, be it agitate the person, then argument and issues started.

come to think of it, what is the point? unhappy, unhappy lor, unhappy feelings will go away.
everything is worthwhile as long as the other party doesn't take u for granted.